Amsterdam   

Don't be fooled by the modest "A" in front of Amsterdam -- it's no wonder that this upscale nightspot has been voted "Best Gay Bar" in Phoenix numerous times over the past few years. With classy, medieval-inspired decor and plush leather couches, Amsterdam oozes charm and elegant grace. Roman columns and stone gargoyles flank the entrance, where a baby grand sits amid a sea of relaxed patrons. A local pianist tickles the ivories in the evenings, providing elegant music appropriate to such a grand setting. On the catwalk above, a velvet leopard-print chaise lies in wait, while handsome bartenders mix drinks for successful businessmen, the occasional female friend, and relaxed couples. The opera house bar, imported from New Mexico, is famous for its mind-boggling selection of custom martinis including chocolate chip and passionflower. While the surreal setting seems to have fallen out of the pages of an Anne Rice novel, the friendly staff and down-to-earth clientele don't bite -- unless you ask nicely.